You can't always be honest, that's part of poker. You can try to play sporty, that keeps it fun! I have been playing for a number of years but I absolutely do not like to play aggressively, stay sporty and be nice to each other. It is a game and will remain a game. Giving someone else something is also part of that, but without bluffing and gambling.... you don't always get far. Sportsmanship always stays with you and gives you a better feeling. If that doesn't apply to Everyone.That's my motto, but I'm an older generation...