My favorite writers: Tolstói, Dostoiévsky, Faulkner.
Bergman, Ozu, Tarkóvsky
“Grace doesn’t try to please itself. Accepts being slighted, forgotten, disliked. Accepts insults and injuries.
“Nature only wants to please itself. Get others to please it too. Likes to lord it over them. To have its own way. It finds reasons to be unhappy when all the world is shining around it. And love is smiling through all things.
“They taught us that no one who ever loves the way of grace ever comes to a bad end.
“I will be true to you. Whatever comes.”
– Terrence Malick
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z28Mi6mUyKo
Reward good play and behavior